Lessons that 2020 taught me

We're in the last days of 2020 (happy dance) yes this deserves a celebration... This year has been tough on a personal level and a worldwide level… I'm thankful for many things that happened this year, even the difficult situations…

I think we can all agree that we'll come out of 2020 (excuse me I mean survive 2020) with lifelong lessons… This year made me stronger, it didn't actually change me, but somehow it improved me…

The most important lessons 2020 taught me:

-If someone likes you, they will show it, they won't hide it, their actions and their words will prove that they like you.

-No matter how amazing you are, you can't make someone want you in their lives, no matter how much love and attention that you give them.

-Focus your good energy on people who truly deserve it, don't go spending your good vibes on people who don't make an effort for you, save it for someone who cares.

-Value yourself and only deal with people who value you, if someone shows that they don't respect or value you, believe it, don't make excuses.

-Accept that you can't change how people think, but if someone's thoughts could cause you harm, then stay away from them.

-Stay away from toxic friendships (or relationships) what's toxic? It's what doesn't nurture you or make you feel good about yourself.

-Invest time in learning, either refresh your French language or learn how to code, you got to take new information every day, it's good for your mind.

-Have fun, relax, watch a movie, listen to your favorite songs or read a book.

-Stay physically active even for five minutes daily.

-Disarm narcissists, it'd vital for your survival.

-Don't feed energy vampires.

-Love people, for real just love people, give love, it's good karma, show love either to a neighbor or a celeb.

-Help animals, they're weak and they need us.

-Take care of yourself.

-Don't compare yourself to others, trust your path.

-Let go of what's hurting you.

-Stay soft, the world doesn't need harsh hearts, let your soul be gentle.

-We're very fragile beings so enjoy every moment even if you're just watching a football match or making lunch, enjoy, you're alive.

-Don't worry about what others think about you!

-Travel, when it's safe again, travel, enjoy cultures, see people.

-Don't underestimate anything, we miss things that used to be taken for granted, like going shopping, going to the movies, or even hug a friend.

-Have boundaries, don't let anyone treat you like if you're nothing, walk away if this happens, and don't look back.

-Appreciate your real friends, recognize them first, how do you do that? Observe who really cares.

-Love your own company.