Things that a narcissist will always want from you

If you have a narcissist in your life, they will do everything possible to ruin you, slowly but surely. Any kind of contact with a narcissist can be brutal and most people spend a long time before figuring out that they're dealing with a narcissist.

If a person has narcissistic personality disorder, they will want specific things from you and if you resist, they can make your life a living nightmare.

The main things that a narcissist will always want from you and won't stop until you comply or run far away from this person and when you think you have run far enough, run some more (based on a personal experience and experiences of friends)

-A narcissist will always want to change who you are, to alter your nature, and to corrupt you. The narcissist always targets an empath (someone who's compassionate and genuine). They actively seek to make their victim a bad person by doing everything possible to drain the empath's kindness. And the more that you show kindness the more that you trigger a narcissist. And they will make you think your sympathy is actually a bad thing.

-A narcissist will always want to make you question yourself. The more that you question yourself, the more they feel satisfied. 

-A narcissist will always want to make you doubt your reality. They will gaslight you to the point that you forget what you actually said and you might even believe the things that they accuse you of. That's how strong their manipulation game is.

-A narcissist will always want you to praise them all the time, especially around people. If you don't praise them enough, then get ready for the evil creatures that they'll become. 

-A narcissist will always want you to never question them. (Because I said so) is a phrase invented by a narcissist. If you don't do exactly what they want, immediately without any question, you'll become an enemy.

-A narcissist will always want you to fail at everything that you do, so you constantly need them financially, they will never want you to see you succeed or have ambition, your success is the biggest trigger for them.

-A narcissist will always want you to depend on them not only financially, but even the smallest details in your life. They want you unable to make a decision on your own, they want you to seek their help and their guidance in anything and everything.

-A narcissist will always want to see you sad, broken, and having no will to live. A narcissist's goal is to break you, to steal your hopes and dreams, to make you a puppet in their hands, and for you to be under their control.

-A narcissist will always want you to have no friends, and to be alone so it will be easier for them to control you.

-A narcissist will always want you to have no boundaries and if you try setting any boundary, even the most basic boundary will upset them.

Remember that nothing that you do will be good enough for them, they will always bring you down, and the moment they pause their torment and you lower your guard, they will hit you when you least expect it.

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