Things I Am Leaving Behind in 2023: Embracing a Fresh Start

As we're approaching a new year, it's natural to reflect on the past and think about what we want to leave behind. For me, one of my biggest goals for 2024 is to let go of the things that hold me back from fully embracing my true self.

In this blog post, I will share with you the things I am leaving behind in 2023, and hopefully, you will feel inspired to do the same.

-Feeling responsible for other people's feelings

For years, I have carried the burden of feeling responsible for how others feel about me. I would constantly worry about whether I said or did something to make someone dislike me. It's exhausting and has caused me unnecessary stress and anxiety. In 2024, I am leaving behind this unhealthy habit and learning. I am not responsible for how others perceive me, and that is something I am finally accepting.

-Being afraid to express myself online

As a blogger, I have always felt pressure to present a perfect image of myself online. I was afraid to share my thoughts and feelings, fearing judgment and criticism. But, in 2024, I am saying goodbye to this fear and embracing authenticity. I am learning that true connection comes from being open and honest. And if people judge me, that's okay because I am proud of who I am and what I stand for.

-Regretting acts of love

I have found myself regretting acts of love and kindness, thinking that I may have been taken advantage of or seen as weak. But, in 2024, I am choosing to see my loving actions as a reflection of my strength and compassion. And if someone takes advantage of that, it says more about them than it does about me.

-Controlling my light to fit in

I have dimmed my light for too long to fit in with others. I have molded myself into what I thought people wanted me to be, rather than embracing my unique qualities. I am leaving behind this need for external validation and learning to embrace my shine. I am realizing that the right people will appreciate and love me for who I am, and that is all that matters.

- Not asking for help

I will leave behind the habit of not asking for help. It's important to recognize that seeking assistance isn't a sign of weakness, but rather a way to grow and learn from others.

- Accepting the bare minimum

I will no longer settle for the bare minimum, from others and myself, both personally and professionally.

- Holding on to material things

I will declutter my life by letting go of material possessions that no longer serve a purpose or bring me happiness. This will create space for new experiences and opportunities.

-Comparison

It's easy to get caught up in comparison and feel like we are not doing enough or not good enough. I am leaving behind this toxic habit and focusing on my journey. I am learning to celebrate my progress and not compare it to others. After all, we are all on our unique paths, and that is something to be cherished.

-The need to be perfect

I'm leaving behind the pursuit of perfection. It's an unattainable goal that only leads to disappointment and self-criticism. Instead, I'm choosing to embrace my imperfections and see them as a part of what makes me human. I'm learning to be kind to myself, rather than striving for an impossible standard of perfection.

- Regretting rest

In a world that glorifies busyness, it's easy to feel guilty for taking a break. But in 2024, I will prioritize my mental and physical well-being and understand that rest is not a sign of weakness, but a necessary part of self-care. And I will encourage others to do the same.